MDEV-15712: If remote server used by Spider table is unavailable, some operations hang for a long time

When an attempt to connect to the remote server fails, Spider retries to
connect to the remote server 1000 times or until the connection attempt
succeeds.  This is perceived as a hang if the remote server remains
unavailable.

I have introduced changes in Spider's table status handler to fix this problem.

Author:
  Jacob Mathew.

Reviewer:
  Kentoku Shiba.

Cherry-Picked:
  Commit 6ee6933a on branch bb-10.3-MDEV-15712