The 10.5 test error main.grant_kill showed up a incorrect
thread id on a big endian architecture.

The cause of this is the sql_kill_user function assumed the
error was ER_OUT_OF_RESOURCES, when the the actual error was
ER_KILL_DENIED_ERROR. ER_KILL_DENIED_ERROR as an error message
requires a thread id to be passed as unsigned long, however a
user/host was passed.

ER_OUT_OF_RESOURCES doesn't even take a user/host, despite
the optimistic comment. We remove this being passed as an
argument to the function so that when MDEV-21978 is implemented
one less compiler format warning is generated (which would
have caught this error sooner).

Thanks Otto for reporting and Marko for analysis.