Add support for removing the Content-Type header to the S3 engine. This
is required for compatibility with some S3 providers.

This also adds a provider option to the S3 engine which will turn on
relevant compatibility options for specific providers.

This was required for getting MariaDB S3 engine to work with "Huawei
Cloud S3".
To get Huawei S3 storage to work on has set one of the following
S3 options:
s3_provider=Huawei
s3_ssl_no_verify=1

Author: Andrew Hutchings <andrew@mariadb.org>