When updating a table with virtual BLOB columns, the following might happen:
- an old record is read from the table, it has no virtual blob values
- update_virtual_fields() is run, vcol blob gets its value into the
  record. But only a pointer to the value is in the table->record[0],
  the value is in Field_blob::value String (but it doesn't have to be!
  it can be in the record, if the column is just a copy of another
  columns: ... b VARCHAR, c BLOB AS (b) ...)
- store_record(table,record[1]), old record now is in record[1]
- fill_record() prepares new values in record[0], vcol blob is updated,
  new value replaces the old one in the Field_blob::value
- now both record[1] and record[0] have a pointer that points to the
  *new* vcol blob value. Or record[1] has a pointer to nowhere if
  Field_blob::value had to realloc.

To resolve this we unlink vcol blobs from the pointer to the
data (in the record[1]). Because the value is not *always* in
the Field_blob::value String, we need to remember what blobs
were unlinked. The orphan memory must be freed manually.

To complicate the matter, ha_update_row() is also used in
multi-update, in REPLACE, in INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE,
also on REPLACE ... SELECT, REPLACE DELAYED, and LOAD DATA REPLACE, etc