MDEV-31045: Update debian/rules to be in sync to MariaDB LTS 10.6

To make sure that PMEM problem does not happen again sync
10.9 and up debian/rules to make sure that they are not making
anymore problems with autobake-debs.sh

debian/autobake-deb.sh

@@ -58,8 +58,8 @@ remove_rocksdb_tools()
 replace_uring_with_aio()
 {
   sed 's/liburing-dev/libaio-dev/g' -i debian/control
-  sed -e '/-DIGNORE_AIO_CHECK=YES/d' \
-      -e '/-DWITH_URING=YES/d' -i debian/rules
+  sed -e '/-DIGNORE_AIO_CHECK=ON/d' \
+      -e '/-DWITH_URING=ON/d' -i debian/rules
 }
 
 disable_pmem()