MDEV-33620 Improve times and states in show processlist for replication

- Slave_IO thread time is now reset between reading events. Before
  this commit Slave_IO always showed "Waiting for master to send
  event" and the time was from SLAVE START. Now it shows time since
  reading last event.

sql/slave.cc

@@ -4982,6 +4982,7 @@ pthread_handler_t handle_slave_io(void *arg)
          important thing is to not confuse users by saying "reading" whereas
          we're in fact receiving nothing.
       */
+      thd->set_time_for_next_stage();
       THD_STAGE_INFO(thd, stage_waiting_for_master_to_send_event);
 
 #ifdef ENABLED_DEBUG_SYNC
@@ -5028,6 +5029,7 @@ Stopping slave I/O thread due to out-of-memory error from master");
       } // if (event_len == packet_error)
 
       retry_count=0;                    // ok event, reset retry counter
+      thd->set_time_for_next_stage();
       THD_STAGE_INFO(thd, stage_queueing_master_event_to_the_relay_log);
       event_buf= mysql->net.read_pos + 1;
       mi->semi_ack= 0;