let the caller take the lock if needed

adaptation of 29bbcac0 for 10.4

* reuse the loop in THD::abort_current_cond_wait, don't duplicate it
* find_thread_by_id should return whatever it has found, it's the
  caller's task not to kill COM_DAEMON (if the caller's a killer)

and other minor changes

Test code modifications and new failures from buildbot registered
only for the main suite. The rest was updated partially,
based on the status of existing JIRA items

Note, the fix for "MDEV-23328 Server hang due to Galera lock conflict resolution"
was null-merged. 10.4 version of the fix is coming up separately

partially revert 76063c2a. Item::clone() is not an all-purpose
Item copying machine, it was specifically created for pushdown
of predicates into derived tables and views and it does not
copy everything. In particular, it does not copy Item_func_regex.

Fix the bug differently by preserving the old constraint name.
But keep setting automatic_name=true to have it regenerated
for cases like ALTER TABLE ... ADD CONSTRAINT.

Test code modifications and new failures from buildbot registered
only for the main suite. The rest was updated partially,
based on the status of existing JIRA items

Use size_t everywhere and remove suspicious expression.

win

Fixed by the author in other way (char -> short)

This reverts commit 496f7090.

Since 2017 (c2118a08) THD::awake() no longer requires LOCK_thd_data.
It uses LOCK_thd_kill, and this latter mutex is used to prevent
a thread of dying, not LOCK_thd_data as before.

and it is that important to be run every time

innodb_shutdown(): Check that fil_system.temp_space is not null
before invoking a member function.

This regression was caused by the merge
commit fa1aef39
of MDEV-24340 (commit 1eb59c30).

Test code modifications and new failures from buildbot only
registered for the main suite. The rest was updated partially,
based on the status of existing JIRA items

Skipping the package within debian/rules won't work because starting
with Debian 10, the helper scripts read the control file before the
recipe.

bson.cpp:1775:3: error: case label value is less than minimum value for type [-Werror]
   case TYPE_NULL:
bson.cpp:1776:7: error: statement will never be executed [-Werror=switch-unreachable]
     b = true;

check that we can do type casting

Apply the patch based on the patch by Varun Gupta:

PARAM::is_ror_scan might be used unitialized when check_quick_select()
is invoked for a "degenerate" SEL_ARG tree (e.g. one having type
SEL_ARG::IMPOSSIBLE).

Make check_quick_select() always initialize PARAM::is_ror_scan.

Problem is that not all plugins are loaded when wsrep_recover is executed.
Thus, we allow unknown system variables and extra system variables during
wsrep_recover. Any unknown system variables would still be caught when
the server starts up normally after the SST.