Patch from Paul DuBois for better help messages

into  mysql.com:/home/kent/bk/tmp2/mysql-5.0-build

  Reverted change for bug#13859, applied smaller patch from Marko

into  trift2.:/MySQL/M50/push-5.0

into  trift2.:/MySQL/M50/push-5.0

into  tiger.mmj.dk:/Users/mmj/bktrees/mysql-5.0

into  trift2.:/MySQL/M41/push-4.1

into  trift2.:/MySQL/M41/push-4.1

  Corrected default for --disable-grant-options

into  mysql.com:/d2/hf/mr10/my50-mr10

  Removed line accidently inserted when correcting bug#18526

into  mysql.com:/d2/hf/mr10/my50-mr10

- configure --disable-grant-options defines DISABLE_GRANT_OPTIONS
- configure.js/cmake also updated
- if DISABLE_GRANT_OPTIONS is defined, mysqld no longer recognizes:
  --bootstrap
  --init-file
  --skip-grant-tables

Scripts which rely on those three options are modified to check the environment for MYSQLD_BOOTSTRAP; it should be set to the full path of a mysqld which does handle those options.

For example:

$ export MYSQLD_BOOTSTRAP
$ MYSQLD_BOOTSTRAP=/path/to/full/MySQL/bin/mysqld
$ mysql_install_db
$ make test

support-files/MySQL-shared-compat.spec.sh  :    Dummy, irrelevant change - just trigger a new build.

no future build of it will include Berkeley DB:
Remove it from the Windows VC++ project files.

into  kpdesk.mysql.com:/home/thek/dev/mysql-4.1-build

into  kpdesk.mysql.com:/home/thek/dev/mysql-5.0-build

into  kpdesk.mysql.com:/home/thek/dev/bug23010/my50-bug23010

into  kpdesk.mysql.com:/home/thek/dev/bug23010/my41-fix23010

- "make_binary_distribution" accepts a dummy "--platform=" argument.

- "MySQL-shared-compat.spec" uses a "version40" define symbol internally.

into  mysql.com:/home/kent/bk/tmp/mysql-5.0-build

  Add CFLAGS to gcc call with --print-libgcc-file, to make sure the
  correct "libgcc.a" path is returned for the 32/64 bit architecture

into  tiger.mmj.dk:/Users/mmj/bktrees/mysql-5.0-build

  Patch from Alfredo for TARGET_FAT_BINARY

into  tiger.mmj.dk:/Users/mmj/bktrees/mysql-5.0-build

  Add patch from Alfredo for TARGET_FAT_BINARY

into  mysql.com:/d2/hf/common/my50-common

into  mysql.com:/d2/hf/common/my50-common

into  mysql.com:/d2/hf/common/my50-common

into  mysql.com:/d2/hf/common/my50-common

  Temporary work around for bug#25359

into  mysql.com:/home/kent/bk/tmp/mysql-5.0-build

  Renamed hash_create() not to clash with imap using embedded server (bug#13859)