MDEV-28816 Assertion `wsrep_thd_is_applying(thd)' failed in int wsrep_ignored_error_code(Log_event*, int)

wsrep expected that any Rows_log_event::do_apply_event() failures
can only happen in the applier thread, because no other thread ever
applies row events. With online alter it's no longer true.

because online means we'll apply events from the binlog, and
ignore means that bad rows will be skipped. So a bad Write_row_log_event
will be skipped and a following Update_row_log_event will fail to
apply.

This test case was also fixed by adding update_virtual_columns.

Division by zero is a good example. sql_mode is basically ignored by
replication, see Bug#56662.

The behavior for ONLINE should remain the same as for non-ONLINE ALTER.

mark fields that have explicit values,
so that table->update_default_fields() would know what to update

We shouldn't rely on `fill_extra_persistent_columns`, as it only updates
fields which have an index > cols->n_bits (replication bitmap width).
Actually, it should never be used, as its approach is error-prone.

Normal update_virtual_fields+update_default_fields should be done.

if ALTER TABLE ... LOCK=xxx is executed under LOCK TABLES,
ignore the LOCK clause, because ALTER should not downgrade
already taken EXCLUSIVE table lock to SHARED or NONE.

This commit preserves the existing behavior (LOCK was de facto ignored),
but makes it explicit.

ALTER ONLINE TABLE acquires table with TL_READ. Myisam normally acquires
TL_WRITE for DML, which makes it hang until table is freed.

We deadlock once ALTER upgrades its MDL lock.

Solution:
Unlock table earlier. We don't need to hold TL_READ once we finished
copying. Relay log replication requires no data locks on `from` table.

MDEV-28967 Assertion `marked_for_write_or_computed()' failed in Field_new_decimal::store_value / online_alter_read_from_binlog`

in the catch-up phase of the online alter we apply row events,
they're unpacked into `from->record[0]` and then converted
to `to->record[0]`.

This needs all fields of `from` to be in the `write_set`.

Although practically `Field::unpack()` does not assert the `write_set`,
and `Field::reset()` - used when a field value is not present in the
after-image - also doesn't assert the `write_set` for many types,
`Field_new_decimal::reset()` does.

in RBR - only show warnings for values that are to be written into a
table, that is, only for the after-image. Don't show data conversion
warnings for the before-image.

* don't disable warnings when catching up
* do propagate warnings up like copy_data_between_tables() does

If online alter fails, TABLE_SHARE can be freed while concurrent
transactions still have row events in their online_alter_cache_data.
On commit they try'll to flush them, writing to TABLE_SHARE's
Cache_flip_event_log, which is already freed.
This causes a crash in main.alter_table_online_debug test

don't simply set tdc->flushed, use flush_unused(1) that removes opened
but unused TABLE instances (that would otherwise prevent TABLE_SHARE from
being closed by keeping the ref_count>0).

even if called from binlog_rollback()

because some engines (e.g. rocksdb) only do it readonly.
instead, downgrade the lock after reading the first row.

instead use only one (trx) IO_CACHE and truncate it if the
statement is rolled back.

don't use binlog_cache_mngr to accumulate the data,
use binlog_cache_data instead.

(binlog_cache_data owns one IO_CACHE, binlog_cache_mngr owns
two binlog_cache_data's, trx and stmt).

because ALTER TABLE ... DROP SYSTEM VERSIONING
is not just a change in the table structure, it also deletes
all historical rows

also

* don't modify write_set
* backup/restore rpl_write_set

so any other value of ALGORITHM or LOCK disables online alter

use ht->start_consistent_snapshot() instead

no functional changes here

two new tests:
* alter table times out because of a long concurrent trx
* alter table adds a column in the middle

* Log rows in online_alter_binlog.
* Table online data is replicated within dedicated binlog file
* Cached data is written on commit.
* Versioning is fully supported.
* Works both wit and without binlog enabled.

* For now savepoints setup is forbidden while ONLINE ALTER goes on.
  Extra support is required. We can simply log the SAVEPOINT query events
  and replicate them together with row events. But it's not implemented
  for now.

* Cache flipping:

  We want to care for the possible bottleneck in the online alter binlog
  reading/writing in advance.

  IO_CACHE does not provide anything better that sequential access,
  besides, only a single write is mutex-protected, which is not suitable,
  since we should write a transaction atomically.

  To solve this, a special layer on top Event_log is implemented.
  There are two IO_CACHE files underneath: one for reading, and one for
  writing.

  Once the read cache is empty, an exclusive lock is acquired (we can wait
  for a currently active transaction finish writing), and flip() is emitted,
  i.e. the write cache is reopened for read, and the read cache is emptied,
  and reopened for writing.

  This reminds a buffer flip that happens in accelerated graphics
  (DirectX/OpenGL/etc).

  Cache_flip_event_log is considered non-blocking for a single reader and a
  single writer in this sense, with the only lock held by reader during flip.

  An alternative approach by implementing a fair concurrent circular buffer
  is described in MDEV-24676.

* Cache managers:
  We have two cache sinks: statement and transactional.
  It is important that the changes are first cached per-statement and
  per-transaction.
  If a statement fails, then only statement data is rolled back. The
  transaction moves along, however.

  Turns out, there's no guarantee that TABLE well persist in
  thd->open_tables to the transaction commit moment.
  If an error occurs, tables from statement are purged.
  Therefore, we can't store te caches in TABLE. Ideally, it should be
  handlerton, but we cut the corner and store it in THD in a list.